tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-69511383513486813842023-11-16T06:25:13.142+00:00Handmaiden of AdonaiLearning to worship the Lord in spirit and in truthHandmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-26115811261725921462012-11-14T18:46:00.000+00:002012-11-14T18:46:24.470+00:00Lessons from the DentistEver since my experience of orthodontics I have been wary of visiting the dentist. The results are phenomenal but the memories of wires poking into gums and train-tracks cutting inner lips linger on.<br />
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Last month a couple of teeth became sensitive so, curious, I went exploring with a dentist's mirror. To my horror I found brown crevices in two of my upper molars and a black spot hiding around the side of one of the lower ones. Horrified, I determined to brush my teeth more thoroughly and with more vigour and enthusiasm as well as alternate flossing and using dental sticks followed by a swig of mouthwash. Surely I could postpone (if not reverse) the inevitable before my upcoming dental check-up?<br />
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I smiled as I walked in and sat on the chair of doom. I felt strangely relaxed as I reclined though I wasn't looking forward to the questions, "And do you wear the retainers every night?" "How often do you floss?" "Are you using mouthwash?" To my surprise the questions never came but I began to hear God's soft, whispered questions.<br />
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"Do you still see dread coming to Me as much as you dread the dentist? Do you dread yourself being laid bare, your imperfections and failings coming into the light for all to see?"<br />
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The dentist worked patiently, adjusting my retainer- adjust, check, adjust, check, adjust, check. He didn't scold me for not wearing my retainer- he just took my teeth as they were and worked from there. What a picture of God's grace?! Rather than give out to us when we mess us, He takes us as we are and works from there.<br />
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Next came an interesting surprise.<br />
"You've been doing too good a job- you've been brushing your teeth too hard." He went on to show me how to position the soft brush ("soft is better than hard" he said!) and gently rotate it in place. I had been too hard- too hard on my teeth, too hard on myself instead of just coming to the Expert and letting him do what He does best.<br />
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The crevices will have to be sealed. He told me that they are too difficult to clean by myself, I need help.<br />
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Thank God I can't do life by myself- I need Him. :)Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-72492956547840246532011-04-14T21:57:00.002+01:002011-04-14T23:06:17.086+01:002 Unexpected Observations<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://paulinescookbook.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/1532-gypsy-woman-at-ellis-island-photograph-by-augustus-sherman.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 177px; height: 250px;" src="http://paulinescookbook.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/1532-gypsy-woman-at-ellis-island-photograph-by-augustus-sherman.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://media-2.web.britannica.com/eb-media/15/90015-050-AE8F066E.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 180px; height: 273px;" src="http://media-2.web.britannica.com/eb-media/15/90015-050-AE8F066E.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><span style="font-weight: bold;">Roma Gypsies</span><br />There are 3 groups of people who put me on high alert when they come into my workplace: travellers, young boys (unaccompanied by adults) and roma gypsies. More often than not these groups cause trouble- taking food that isn't theirs, stealing milk, wrecking bathrooms... They'll chance their arm at anything! Today though I came to a realisation about roma gypsies. As a group of them walked out of the restaurant today (having behaved very well during their visit- just to dispel my fears about them :) ) I couldn't help but notice how elegantly dressed the women were. In fact, I realised, I have never seen a roma gypsy who hasn't been elegantly dressed. Unwashed and a bit rough around the edges perhaps, but not inelegant.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://life3dblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/gypsy.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 161px; height: 161px;" src="http://life3dblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/gypsy.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />The women have beautiful long hair, sometimes with their head covered. They wear long, ankle length skirts with high shoes and never bare arms, legs or bellies. They wear their babies and are not ashamed of breastfeeding in public. Hang on... aren't those things that I aspire to? Dressing modestly yet beautifully, baby wearing and exclusive breastfeeding (when the time comes). What an awkward and humbling moment of affinity with a group I usually feel loathe to serve. I will never look at them in the same way again.<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />Taste</span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://ag.christianbook.com/g/product/7/79464.gif"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 252px; height: 252px;" src="http://ag.christianbook.com/g/product/7/79464.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />After 10 months of working in a fast food restaurant I finally got sick of fast food. Yes, it really did take that long! I was helped along by reading Joyce Meyer's book, "Look Great, Feel Great". I bought this book about 5 or 6 years ago. I didn't think it was worth reading past a couple of chapters when I bought it. I was newly saved and wanted to grow spiritually. What did looking after my body and mind have to do with anything? I wanted to be great spiritually, everything else was irrelevent. I consigned it to the bookshelf. For some reason though, it survived numerous declutterings. Now, 5 or 6 years on, a couple of burnouts later, and numerous warning signs that my body and mind had been stretched past capacity too many times, its contents make so much sense and have so much wisdom. I can now appreciate it.<br /><br />One thing <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://images.faithclipart.com/images/3/1241456229067_373/img_1241456229067_3731.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 208px; height: 156px;" src="http://images.faithclipart.com/images/3/1241456229067_373/img_1241456229067_3731.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>she says in the book really struck me. To paraphrase, she said that we can only push our bodies and minds into breakdown so many times before they have been damaged irreparably and can never recover to full health and wholeness. As someone who has experienced mental and physical breakdown, this set alarm bells off in my head. If I don't take care of my body (the temple of the Holy Spirit, a gift from God) and my mind (my sanity, my well-being, my emotions) nobody will. I have a responsibility to take care of these and as I do, my spiritual life will also benefit as without my body and soul, my spirit has no way of making an impact on this world (or even just managing to life one day at a time).<br /><br />From reading this book I learned and was reminded of the impact that different foods have on your body: sugars, proteins, trans fats, good fats, carbohydrates, whole grain vs processed, etc. Within the first week of starting work I learned that carbonated drinks need to be "buffered" through the digestive system (I'm assuming so that they cannot do too much damage?). The body uses calcium as a buffering agent, so the more carbonated drinks you consume, the more calcium is leached out of your bones to try and usher them through, resulting in osteoporosis and brittle bones. I can count on one hand the number of carbonated drinks I have drunk in the past 10 months!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/1/12981/bone-density.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 311px; height: 113px;" src="http://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/1/12981/bone-density.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.funnypart.com/pictures/FunnyPart-com-too_much_caffeine.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 100px; height: 140px;" src="http://www.funnypart.com/pictures/FunnyPart-com-too_much_caffeine.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>What concerned me while reading the book was the amount of sugar, salt and added nasties that I was eating 5 days a week at work. But it's free food! What about the cost to my health? Thankfully, my body has made it pretty clear that that amount of crappy food is bad for me. I no longer drink lattes every day, my palatte gives out about the caffeine. I switched to hot chocolate but now only as a last resort because the sugar is grating against my taste buds and my blood sugar/energy levels were shooting up and then plummeting really fast.<br /><br />But it's amazing what just 2 days of bringing my own lunch to <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjH21yPN_3z45btLMLMlWbp1OUCL9FciCjZDl-k30SX7EMUAwnjIe2Rtze2ccU8L9xGJKZORQYXbYtqdAYeTkpFtxTe4vko8ctICYB6rO4eG71ae6qoS1R6esHoo90eGaSeRnr_h11KqNCA/s1600/foodies%252B1395.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 218px; height: 163px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjH21yPN_3z45btLMLMlWbp1OUCL9FciCjZDl-k30SX7EMUAwnjIe2Rtze2ccU8L9xGJKZORQYXbYtqdAYeTkpFtxTe4vko8ctICYB6rO4eG71ae6qoS1R6esHoo90eGaSeRnr_h11KqNCA/s1600/foodies%252B1395.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>work has made. Yesterday and today I took a bowl of soup (cream of chicken, then carrot, coriander and fennel) plus half a mini loaf of homemade bread (soda bread with roasted hazelnuts, rosemary and sultanas). Yesterday, I think I ate a bit too much because I got really tired after eating- my body wanted a nap so that it could digest that nice food! Either that or my body was confused- why are you feeding me good stuff now? No more crap? Woo hoo! Today I got my 15 minute break very late, less than an hour before I finished work, so I was a bit hungry. I took some mozzarella dippers with sour cream and chive dip to tide me over until dinner time. I was amazed at how <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.bestcarrotrecipe.com/image-files/carrot-soup-recipe.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 197px; height: 197px;" src="http://www.bestcarrotrecipe.com/image-files/carrot-soup-recipe.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>my sense of taste had improved in just two days! I could taste all of the flavours so well. My taste buds weren't already saturated with salt and sugar so they could appreciate it when they experienced it again. However, after a half an hour (and right up 'til now actually) there is a nasty tang on my tongue. The feeling that I've had too much sweet, salty, acidic food. I have gotten that feeling many times before but haven't realised 'til now what it is. I don't want it anymore thanks. One of my colleagues has given up smoking after 22 years. He told me that he can smell the blossoms on the trees again. That's a bit what I feel like. After 10 months I can taste the flavours in my food again.Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-46940616185591704112011-03-11T19:36:00.002+00:002011-03-11T20:11:36.687+00:00Snapshots of the Past Couple of Days<span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: georgia;">Massage</span><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;">I need a massage! Yesterday at work was really tough- the business manager was running the shift, we were overrun with customers and there was mutiny in the air. No matter what I did it wasn't right. Now that our practical massage classes are over (I passed all of my practical assessments with flying colours!) I miss the weekly massages, opportunities to release some of the built-up tension in my muscles. Is it ironic that I find it hard to justify spending €45 for a massage session for myself, despite knowing that, as a massage therapist, it's worth a lot more?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: georgia;">Red Apron</span><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;">Today I bought three items in anticipation of the future: a sabatier knife, a garlic press and a red apron. Part of the reason for the apron is that one of my friends is having her bridal shower soon and we've all been asked to wear aprons and bring wooden spoons! I browsed the range of aprons: striped, patterned, pictured, frilly, plain... I settled on an unpatterned bright red one made of thick cotton. I love red accessories, I'm not always brave enough to wear red clothes (though I do have a red dress on the sewing table). I have a red umbrella, an elegant but sturdy one that I love. I think that's why I chose the red apron. It's not as pretty as some of the other ones but it will last and there's a touch of class to it despite its humble practicality. I love the apron we wear in the cafe at work, a brown, straight-edged one that runs from high on the waist to mid calf. I feel such a sense of purpose and contentment in wearing it. Perhaps it's that the homemaker in me gets a chance to express herself, to set herself apart as having an important role, being someone who people come to for nourishment and care and love.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: georgia;">Making Plans</span><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;">I must admit, part of me feels guilty about those purchases today. I plan to get a contract working on a cruise ship for 9 months- the interview is in June. To me it marks a clean break from my family. Not that I want to get rid of them (not anymore, anyway!), but that I want to establish myself as being a person in my own right. I want to have a chance to live as a "woman", not only as a "daughter". I want my own kitchen, to run my own household. I'm in the slow process of decluttering things in my room that I don't want to take with me when I leave and storing things that I do want to take with me. On my list of things I want to have in my own home are a sabatier knife and an apron. Perhaps I just feel unsure about taking that first stumbling flight out of the nest? Or I feel guilty about making plans when in New Zealand and Japan homes and lives are being shaken and swept away without warning. I keep having to remind myself not to be afraid, that Jesus told us that these things would happen and that it's just a sign of things to come. He's coming back soon.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: georgia;">Marathon</span><br /><span style="font-family: georgia;">"let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us <span style="font-weight: bold;">run</span> with patience <span style="font-weight: bold;">the race</span> that is set before us, </span><span style="font-family: georgia;">Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith" Heb 12:1-2</span><br /><p>"Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? <span style="font-weight: bold;">So run, that ye may obtain</span>. And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible. I therefore so run, not as uncertainly; so fight I, not as one that beateth the air: But I keep under my body, and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway." 1 Cor 9:24-27<br /></p>"For <span style="font-weight: bold;">physical training is of some value</span>, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come." 1 Tim 4:8<br /><br />In order to prepare for working on a cruise ship (5 and a half 12 hour shifts a week) I decided I needed to build up my stamina and fitness. I've been doing interval training on my cross trainer plus some stretches. Though I've only been at it for a little while I can already see tangible results. When I started, my pulse rate would peak at about 120 bpm. During my last workout at the same level of exertion my bpm peaked at 96! My body seems to be already adapting to the increased activity! This line of thought has also been spilling over into my spiritual life. I'm not a spiritual athlete. I find it difficult to pray and read the Word sometimes until I get spiritually dehydrated and have to turn to Him or burn out. For the first time in possibly years, I've been spontaneously worshipping God in the car, not only singing praise and worship songs but praying and prophesying in song! Sometimes it starts out feeling laboured and put on, but it always ends up feeling natural, loving, exciting and passionate.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Elijah and Leah</span><br />In Home and Away today, Elijah arrived back in the bay... with his new wife and stepson. Leah had only recently left Zimbabwe after the two mutually agree to end their relationship. Leah is devastated. I would have cried along with her except that I was at the dinner table with other people. It touched a sore spot in me that had been submerged for a while. Maybe it was just a chance for it to express itself and release some emotions by empathising with someone else's (even though she's just a character in a soap opera)?Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-73590982797526310602011-02-17T21:55:00.006+00:002011-02-17T22:29:32.904+00:00God's Dibber<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqxPeON9EOWcXPFhbNUAUaJ5wHDYnk7yrGG9pCMI-lZL24pkZUEP_Ncs59-hApIoWXpPExJJsR_X_ly7b2jGA_H0e9xdx7Lnf7hiycq9uSQ2blqIuTyan0vNHQ40MVEUX69t1EYf_DiKc/s1600/seed_growing.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 319px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqxPeON9EOWcXPFhbNUAUaJ5wHDYnk7yrGG9pCMI-lZL24pkZUEP_Ncs59-hApIoWXpPExJJsR_X_ly7b2jGA_H0e9xdx7Lnf7hiycq9uSQ2blqIuTyan0vNHQ40MVEUX69t1EYf_DiKc/s1600/seed_growing.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br />The past couple of months have been very tough. Circumstances seemed to mount up and overwhelm me. There were a lot of tears and a lot of wondering whether God was listening and why I couldn't hear from Him. I was reading His Word (I needed it to get through each day), but in general nothing jumped out and grabbed me.<br /><br />Recently things came to a head. It was a very tough week where I had to deal with a stalker as well as ringing the pastor of my first home church telling him that I had made a mistake leaving and wanted to return. A lot got resolved and then I took a blow that knocked me off my feet. In the past, I have felt pain like a knife being torn through my heart. This time, it felt like a rapier piercing my heart- a blade that was sharp but clean. I couldn't understand why I was still in so much pain. It was only last night that God showed me a bigger part of the picture than I had been able to see before. Things started to make sense.<br /><br />I was driving home after a night out with the girls (karaoke!). I was crying and telling God that I was aching and I knew that He was the only one who could meet that need, sooth that ache. I told Him that I didn't know what to pray, only that His will be done. Out of the blue, for the first time in a long time, I heard His voice. He didn't speak about my circumstances or the future or His purposes for me. He reassured me,<br />"I love you very much". I repeated it after Him,<br />"You love me very much?"<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gcgardenbeds.com.au/wp-content/uploads/wpsc/product_images/Garden%20Dibber.jpg"><br /></a><br />"I love you very much. I have never left you and I never will." I thought of the people who I felt let down by, who I felt had abandoned me.<br />"You'll never leave me?"<br />"I'll never leave you." I repeated these truths over and over to myself, allowing them to sink into my heart, like seeds into the soil of my heart. Today it struck me.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://c.photoshelter.com/img-get/I0000sureFdOqzJE/s"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 217px; height: 326px;" src="http://c.photoshelter.com/img-get/I0000sureFdOqzJE/s" alt="" border="0" /></a>It wasn't a rapier that pierced my heart, it was God's dibber making a hole in the soil of my heart, making room for those two seeds to be planted. My heart was hardened from pain and my unwillingness to let anyone it. I was holding up my circumstances as a shield between me and God, not letting Him come in. It took something sharp to pierce through my defenses and plant those two seeds.<br /><br />Now that the seeds have been <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://static-p4.fotolia.com/jpg/00/14/16/35/400_F_14163561_6kCMSjGgpitL4YG7G6959EgJQGgE5l12.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://static-p4.fotolia.com/jpg/00/14/16/35/400_F_14163561_6kCMSjGgpitL4YG7G6959EgJQGgE5l12.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>planted, I can water them and allow them to grow, blossom and bear fruit. They will not be taken away. The revelation that God loves me very much and that He will never leave me cannot be taken away, it is embedded in my core being, planted in my heart.<br /><br />What I thought was a painful moment, something meant to hurt me, God meant for good. What I thought was destructive was used to be creative, generative, an opportunity for comfort and growth.Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-46690741159285571782011-01-06T19:26:00.002+00:002011-01-06T19:47:05.728+00:00Downsizing my WardrobeStumbled across <a href="http://www.bemorewithless.com/2010/quick-start-guides-for-project-333/">Project 333</a> this evening and was so excited I jumped straight in! I've been decluttering my room one <a href="http://www.flylady.net">baby step</a> at a time and I still get surprised at what I find in my wardrobe sometimes. Here is an inventory I took of the clothes in my wardrobe (not including socks, underwear, pyjamas or accessories, e.g. hats, gloves, scarves...). The first figures represent what was there (not including what I'm wearing/what's in the wash) and the figures in brackets represent what I kept, i.e. what did not go into probation before I visit the charity shop.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Clothing Inventory</span><br />Tops<br /><ul><li>Dressy camisoles/tank tops- 6 (2)</li><li>Casual/plain camisoles- 19 (3)</li><li>T-shirts- 23 (8)</li><li>Long-sleeved T-shirts- 9 (3)</li><li>Light cardigans- 10 (4)</li><li>Woolly jumpers- 8 (1)</li><li>Other heavy jumpers (inc. hoodies)- 9 (5)</li><li>Dresses/long tops- 11 (7)</li><li>Shirts- 6 (3)</li><li>Waistcoats- 2 (1)</li><li>Suit jackets- 2 (2)<br /></li></ul>Bottoms<br /><ul><li>Jeans- 3 (2) (loads of these in the wash!)</li><li>Dressy/work trousers- 2 (1)</li><li>Suit- 1 (1)</li><li>Shorts- 2 (1)</li><li>Skirts- 5 (0)</li></ul>Also did shoes/boots<br /><ul><li>Leather boots-3 pairs (haven't purged anything yet)</li><li>Snow boots- 1</li><li>Hiking boots- 2</li><li>Sandals- 2</li><li>MBTs- 1</li><li>Heels- 2</li><li>Flip flops- 2</li><li>Flats/pumps- 2</li><li>Sneakers- 3</li><li>Work shoes- 1</li></ul>The aim of Project 333 is to get down to 33 items per season. According to this list I've pared my clothes down to 43 while shoes are at 19 (whoa- I have 19 pairs of shoes?!). I do think that I'll be able to get shoes down to 13 though... ;) The clothes tally isn't as bad as I thought although I'm amazed at my skirts- I've been moving more towards wearing skirts or dresses but realised that I don't like all but one of my skirts (which is in the wash as we speak)! If that isn't an excuse to sew some new ones I don't know what is :pHandmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-28638045761093982882011-01-04T20:58:00.005+00:002011-01-04T21:43:54.440+00:00Remembering 2010Wow. The beginning of a new year, a fresh look at things, a chance to forget the worries that lie behind and press on.<br /><br />This time last year I was about to start a 4 week long teaching placement. I had just met up with my ex for the first time since the previous May. That renewed contact got me through the 2 weeks of the placement that I struggled through. It was hell. A week and a half into it I started getting panic attacks, I couldn't manage my classes and I was hating the placement. I took Thursday and Friday off and tried to rest for the weekend. I couldn't sleep on Sunday night and I was getting more and more anxious and upset. I rang Ollie. He calmed me down and I decided to pull out of the placement. It was not worth messing up my mental health over it. I visited my GP and decided to go on a low dose of anti-anxiety tablets. Now, a year later, I've decided it's time to wean myself off them.<br /><br />In June, I had a breakthrough. After dropping a friend off at work one day I felt like a hot fudge sundae. As I was waiting in the queue I noticed a poster that said the restaurant chain was looking for employees. I noted the website. I applied for a job in 2 local branches. Both applications were declined. Unperturbed and sure that the prompting was from God (I'd been unemployed for a while and too afraid of rejection to seek work) I applied to a third branch. This one was 10 miles from home and I'd never visited it. Ollie and I had started seeing each other again and he came down to meet my family. While we were chatting in the dining room before going for a walk I got a phone call from the manager of the restaurant asking me to come in for an interview the next morning. I couldn't believe it! Ollie and I drove over early the next morning- we were gobsmacked. It was the nicest branch of this restaurant I had ever seen. It had a cafe attached and we drank tea and coffee before the interview. The interview went well and then the manager asked me a question: "If I ask you a question will you please answer it honestly? It will not affect your chances of getting the job." I got nervous. What on earth was she going to ask me? "The job advert was for a crew position but if I offered you work as a hostess would you accept it?" She continued by explaining that I would be responsible for a team that would clean the lobby and for looking after the customers. I replied in the affirmative.<br /><br />A couple of weeks later I was working as a hostess. Over the next few months I learned how to use the till, work in the drive-thru and most recently, work in the cafe all by myself. I have been given opportunities to prove myself, taken them and been rewarded with positions of higher responsibility.<br /><br />In September, I repeated my teaching placement in the same school I was in in January. I still hated it but by the grace of God I got through it. I will never set foot in a secondary school classroom again and that's ok.<br /><br />I must note at this stage what a miracle all of this is. In early January 2010 I sat beside Ollie in his mother's sitting room crippled with fear. We started on a journey of discovering who we are in Christ and putting aside our fear. God led us through scriptures that affirmed who we are in Christ. Gal 2:20, Col 3:8-17 and Eph 6:10-18 were 3 that helped me settle into work. I repeated them to myself in the car journey over. I'm so thankful for Ollie's support during this time, I needed to lean on him and he was there. To date, I've been able to hold down a full time job and Ollie has been sober for 14 months- praise Jesus for His healing touch! This year I've come to see how dependent I am on Him. I don't feel weak or stupid admitting that, I feel relieved. I don't have to live this life on my own strength, Jesus is in me, the hope of glory and He lives in me, through me. :)<br /><br />I still struggle with feelings of fear and inadequacy, but now I feel better equipped to deal with them. Life is not perfect, but I know that I can settle in the knowledge that God is in control, that His plans for me are good and He will bring them to pass.Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-64990490238179498482010-09-08T19:44:00.003+01:002010-09-08T20:06:03.416+01:00A Life Told in SwimsToday I went swimming for the first time in about a year. By myself. I swam 3/4 lengths at my leisure, avoiding dive bombing kids and adults swimming with floats. I swam for 25 minutes but rested for a moment between lengths. This was followed by a relaxing hot shower, a few minutes in the sauna and taking my time getting dressed and combing conditioner through my hair. Contrast this to my 9 year old self: Racing to get to the pool early (having put on my togs beneath my clothes to save time), waiting at the poolside to be the first in, darting here and there over, in and under the water, getting the most out of every minute. I would wait until the lifeguard shouted, "time's up" before clambering out for a quick shower and change.<br /><br />I enjoyed today as much as I enjoyed swimming when I was 9. Today was one of the infrequent times in the past few years that I have enjoyed swimming. I enjoyed not having to think, just doing the equivalent of a stroll in the pool with nothing/no one to worry about.<br /><br />I can mark a lot of developments in my life in the swimming pool.<br />At 4 years old I clung to the bar afraid to let go. At 5 I jumped straight into the deep end, unafraid in my bright orange armbands. Through primary school I gained confidence, earning certificates and medals for my achievements. My Dad, brothers and I had season tickets at the local pool which we used often. By the age of 9 I had started lifesaving lessons, dividing time between learning in the water and shivering as I practiced CPR and the recovery position on the cold, wet poolside tiles. During one trip to the local pool the lifeguard told me to get out of the deep end. After towing my Dad around the shallow end I was never told to get out again!<br /><br />At 13 however I was training for a particular lifesaving medal. There was one section (a timed swim carrying a person in a tow using a shirt) that I just couldn't do. No matter how hard I tried I just did not have the stamina to make the time. Discouraged I left and didn't return. Swimming lost its joy for me. In my teens and 20s my most enjoyable swims were with friends in the sea (I no longer feel so cold in the open water). But, for me, today was the first time I went swimming alone and didn't feel bored with nobody to talk to/chase around the pool. I enjoyed the time to myself without anybody needing my attention or being responsible for anybody. Thanks for the blessing today, Lord!Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-91817472568936537572010-04-02T14:21:00.001+01:002010-04-02T14:22:50.806+01:00Letting go is not the same as forgetting the good times...<br /><br />Amazing how when we let go of a situation, stop trying to fix it and hand it over to God, He takes it and does an amazing job with, beyond what we could hope or imagine! Thank You, Lord!Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-21690894956184698392010-03-30T18:49:00.001+01:002010-03-30T18:51:06.474+01:00Thought for today...Letting go is not the same as forgetting the good times.Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-53310099772450421042010-03-26T03:13:00.002+00:002010-03-26T03:32:14.229+00:00Ah, you are beautiful, My beloved, truly lovely...<div style="text-align: justify;">"I've got a feelin' that tonight's gonna be a good night, that tonight's gonna be a good, good night..."<br /><br />It was.<br /><br />Tonight was the night of my final year college ball and it marked a landmark in my journey of self-acceptance. Traditionally, discos have stressed me out. The emphasis was always on boys and who likes who and who's kissing who... I never really felt like I was a part of the beauty contest. I was never the first choice of the girls in school and I never felt pretty, never mind beautiful.<br /><br />The first time a man told me I was beautiful was last year. I didn't believe him! It took him persistently telling me, "you're beautiful", "you're beautiful" for it to sink in. My Lord says the same thing about me, "you are beautiful, my beloved, truly lovely..." and what His Word says is true!<br /><br />Well, tonight I both felt and looked beautiful. It's not vain for me to say this. My security or self-worth does not lie in my outward appearance but in my identity in Christ. I was dressed in a midnight blue strapless, floor length gown that cost me a hefty £18 sterling in a charity shop in Co. Tyrone. I wore my silver <a href="http://www.myprecious.us/images/arwen_pendant_med.jpg">Evenstar</a> necklace (a copy of the one Arwen wears in the LOTR films) and diamond drop earrings. My hair was up and curly, topped off with a silver butterfly hairband. People noticed me!<br /><br />While dancing (without caring so much what people think when they look at me) and sitting to rest I couldn't help but look at the people I have been in college with for four years. I feel like my eyes were opened and I saw them in a new light.<br /><br />I saw the snob who ignored me (and I paid in kind) for four years, she was sitting down, self-conscious about her weight and wary of dancing in case somebody would pass remarks about her. For the first time I felt like I could identify with her and I felt sorry that she didn't feel free to dance.<br />I saw the guy desperate for a girl, any girl, to go out with during the course, he was smiling and chatting to the beautiful girl he had brought as his date and she was equally enamoured. I smiled, he looked content and at ease which was lovely.<br />I saw a close friend, always smiling and eager to help looking drawn and thin. I could see the strain of her relationships and sickness pulling her taut as she tried to cover up by drinking, smiling and hiding in the bathroom.<br />I saw another close friend, afraid that no one will accept her for who she is, admiring my ability to be myself. I told her that I was sick of trying to be somebody else.<br /><br />I bless the Lord for these people. I have spent four years being critical of them, trying to avoid them and what a snob I have been. As I have journeyed into the knowledge of my identity in Christ I have seen that what is true of me (that I am loved unconditionally, that I am beautiful, that I am precious to Someone) is also true of these people and it's time I started treating them accordingly.<br /><br />Teach me to love them and accept them, Lord, as You do. In Jesus' name, Amen.<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-58784211927185029832010-03-22T11:08:00.001+00:002010-03-22T11:08:55.215+00:00Come, Rest in Me.Come, rest in Me.<br />Cease all your frantic rowing,<br />Allow yourself to draw a breath.<br /><br />Come, rest in Me.<br />Unhook your roughly hewn oars,<br />Cast them into the stormy sea.<br /><br />Come, rest in Me.<br />Let down the fine, brocade sails,<br />Let My gentle breeze fill them out.<br /><br />Come, rest in Me.<br />Curl up in the boat’s belly,<br />Close your eyes, let Me hold you close.<br /><br />Come, rest in Me.<br />Come, place your life in My hands,<br />I am the Way, I’ll lead you on.<br /><br />(c) Aoife Keegan 19th March 2010<br />Shalom xxxHandmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-73448414601005214462010-03-18T13:32:00.004+00:002010-03-18T13:58:02.238+00:00Sanctification<div style="text-align: justify;">On Tuesday, I went to college and then after a few errands I set off to Belfast with a sister in Christ and a car full of bags, guitar and a buggy. I was tired when I arrived but I was hoping that after a good night's sleep I'd be able to get stuck in to the day of street evangelism we were there to do. Instead, I woke up tired even though I slept a good 8 hours. Not only was I tired but I was not in the mood for dealing with people, even my own friends- lol!<br /><br />Memories of the past year (good, bad and indifferent) were flying around my mind and after a session of praise and worship I elected to stay behind and make lunch while the others went out on the street. I told the pastor who owns the house that I was able to deal with food today, but not people. He understood what I meant and came back a few hours later to help me. I chopped carrots and potatos and mushrooms for stew- 4 pots full- and just mulled over things. I remembered where I was on this day last year and it was a good day, a really good day! But a lot of things change in a year and here I was chopping vegetables.<br /><br />I left Belfast when the stragglers started tucking into their stew. I didn't talk much on the way back, I just wondered why I had gone in the first place, apart from making lunch what was the point of me being there? I was frustrated and lonely and depressed and to top it all I was angry that I couldn't seem to get past the frustration and loneliness and depression. After dropping my passenger home I drove to the chipper, bought dinner, sat in the car eating it, crying and shouting at God.<br /><br />I was still discouraged this morning when, having driven to college relatively on time I still managed to miss three lectures. Then I came across a <a href="http://www.reclaimingthemind.org/blog/2009/09/rethinking-sanctification-because-i-have-to/">post</a> on sanctification in a <a href="http://www.reclaimingthemind.org/">blog</a> I'd never read before. The poster describes how his definition of sanctification had changed over the years as he saw that he wasn't able to live up to his original definition. Here are the two definitions he writes in the post:<br /><blockquote><br /><strong></strong><strong>1. Sanctification </strong><em>n</em>. The state of experiencing growth that is measured by becoming more Christ-like. Interpretation: You are getting better and better. You are not as mean as you were before. You don’t complain as much. You have a better outlook on life. You are <em>never</em> depressed. Your problems are dealt with in a more mature manner: you know, the way Christ dealt with them. Oh, and you also have more figured out than you did before.<br /><br /><strong>2. Sanctification</strong> <em>n</em>. The process of Christian development that has more to do with how dependent you have become on the Lord, not necessarily about being “good.” Sanctification has more to do with how often you are broken before him, not your stoic ability to deal with pain. Sanctification has more to do with a recognition of your <em>weaknesses</em> than of your strengths. Sanctification has more to do with repentance than with the things that don’t require repentance. In the end, sanctification amounts to the progressive movements you make toward the side of God because you have no where else to go.</blockquote>I would have agreed with the first definition a few years ago, but now the second definition describes me much, much better. I find myself being broken more and more often, not whole; recognising my weaknesses and failings, not growing in strength; moving towards God because I have nowhere else to go. I'm not resentful about this, it's just that nothing else satisfies. Sometimes I turn to God to complain about this but at the end of the day I'm moving towards Him and not away from Him. Thank God for that.<br /><br />I haven't been magically fixed by reading the article but it helps just to know that someone else understands where I'm at. That means more to me right now than hard and fast answers, knowing that someone else can relate to me where I'm at. Hallelujah!<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-1875752333310256482010-03-13T23:05:00.002+00:002010-03-13T23:43:47.042+00:00Where is my Refuge?<div style="text-align: justify;">I went to a conference on Wednesday hosted by Freedom in Christ Ministries, "The Core of Christianity". There were about 20-25 people there, I wish there could have been more because the teaching was so solid and good, but the main thing is that God wanted me to be there and He made sure I was! I wanted to go because of testimonies I'd heard that the teachings and material the FICM uses are very good and that they've helped people with addiction problems, depression, eating disorders, etc.<br /><br />There was a book shop available and I asked God which book(s) to buy- I had €20. I felt His Spirit encouraging me to ask the main speaker, Neil T. Anderson, which one(s) to get. I waited for a tea break and approached him. I explained that the fellowship I'm in do lots of street evangelism and that while the Lord is richly blessing the ministry, every person in the group is battling with an addiction or sickness or fear or anxiety. He was very brief (he had autographs to sign) and he suggested 3 books in this order: "Victory Over the Darkness", "Bondage Breaker" and "Discipleship Counselling". The total cost of the books was €42.97. I decided to nip out to the ATM- no problem!<br /><br />Except... when I tried to take out €20 the ATM cheerfully told me that I had insufficient funds. Oh. I asked God to provide the remaining €20 (I had loosed change in my pocket to add to my own €20). After all He had led me to ask Neil what would be helpful and He wouldn't do that and then not provide what I needed to buy the books. On a whim I checked the zipped pocket of my bible cover. There was €20 inside. I laughed until I remembered that that €20 was a tithe that somebody had given me for the church. I decided to check another ATM, just in case there was something wrong with the other one. There wasn't.<br /><br />As I walked back to the conference hall I told God that I didn't want to steal from the church tithes, it didn't feel right to me. Again, His voice filled my ears, "will these books benefit the church?" I told him that I hoped so and wanted it to. "Then spend the money on whatever will help the people in the church." I was filled with joy and peace! I walked in and bought all three of the books.<br /><br />So far I've read through "Victory Over the Darkness" and am making my way through the study guide at the back of the book. There is so much truth and wisdom in this book but one thing in particular has struck my heart. Where do I go when I feel threatened, depressed or afraid? Bed. Since I was 3 years old, my bed has been my refuge, the safe place I go to when I want to hide away from the world for a while. Sometimes for a very long while. Since starting college ,where attendance was more or less up to the student, I frequented my refuge more and more, sometimes not making the morning lectures or even missing a whole day hiding in bed. For me it's a secure place, but staying in it past the morning hours has had consequences for me. Staying in bed past the time I felt tired meant that my mind was free to wander to places I didn't always want it to go. Sometimes I would feel paralysed with fear and unable to get up. Other times I would feel racked with guilt for staying in bed so long and ashamed and inadequate when my mum asked me how many lectures I'd missed this time.<br /><br />I'd tried to find security in other places of course. In friendships (which exploded/drifted apart), in academic achievement (which held no fulfillment for me beyond the age of 16), in training to be a teacher (where my expectations were off the wall), in relationships (which fell apart). My bed, while inadequate and sometimes prison-like, was the best I thought I had. Many mornings I wrestle between trying to escape my too-comfortable cell and giving in to the warm comfort and quiet.<br /><br />This morning, while I was struggling to get up, I was reminded of what I'd read in "Victory Over the Darkness": the Lord is my refuge. If God is my refuge then nothing else comes close, nothing else is good enough, nowhere else will I be truly safe and secure. "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." Psalm 46:1. God is my refuge, not my bed. I am safe in God. And guess what? Because I am in Christ and He is in me, that refuge goes with me wherever I am! When I leave my bed I am secure in my refuge, when I eat breakfast I am secure in my refuge, when I drive to college I am secure in my refuge, when I am away from home I am secure in my refuge, wherever I go I am secure in my refuge!<br /><br />God is my refuge and I am secure in Him :)<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-89543125900569539752010-03-03T17:19:00.003+00:002010-03-03T17:25:49.658+00:00Dear God, I would like to become a little child and rest my soul in you.<div style="text-align: justify;">For the past 2 years or so I've been receiving a daily e-devotional from Dorothy Valcarcel's <a href="http://www.transformationgarden.com/">Transformation Garden</a>. She decided to study the lives of each of the women in the bible, starting at Genesis. In my naivity I thought that wouldn't take too long. How delighted I was to discover how wrong I was! A few years into her project and Dorothy is currently on the life of Abigail in the book of 1 Samuel.<br /><br />One thing I really like about this devotional are the quotes and prayers that Dorothy uses in each one. A prayer in today's devotional really touched my heart and summed up my heart's cry in words better than I could have come up with.<br /><br /></div><div style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;">"Dear God,<br />I would like to become a little child and rest my soul in you.<br />I'm tired of the loneliness, tired of the struggle,<br />I want to surrender but I don't know how.<br />You see, I have this problem of being adult.<br />I belong to the generation which makes decisions, plans, works,<br />accepts responsibility, takes pride in being independent.<br />Adults are supposed to manage their lives.<br />They are concerned with owning things and<br />making things happen, and they don't like to look small or foolish.<br />Dear God, for a long time I've been living at the centre of a world<br />which has prevented me from entering the Kingdom of Heaven. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div><div style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;"> <div style="display: inline;">Father God, Mother God,<br />show me how to become your child.<br />I am aware of the advice that Jesus gives.<br />He does not say that we should remain in infancy.<br />He says that we should become as little children.<br />This tells me that I need to know the futility of independence before I can let go of it.<br />It is the letting go which is difficult.<br />I know you are there, waiting to give yourself to me, but I'm afraid to commit myself.<br />Please help me to loosen this grip on my pride<br />so that I can hold out my arms to you and be enfolded in your love."<br /> Joy Cowley</div></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-45426750231057969672010-02-21T20:07:00.003+00:002011-11-15T23:22:51.022+00:00Finding my NicheI've been involved with a very active street evangelism team since about November 2006. The team goes out on the streets 1-2 times a week and also goes on up to 8 "away trips" (in various parts of the UK and Ireland) a year. I was so thrilled to be part of the team! People we meet on the street get the opportunity to hear the gospel and many pray with us to repent of their sin and trust in Jesus for their salvation. Joining this team caused a lot of friction with my immediate family and later on with some people in my fellowship but I motored on with it because it was obviously (to me) God's will for me to be involved in evangelism.<br /><br />Then I burned out in February 2009.<br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />I'd just finished a 3 week work experience placement <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix1BkdREqJPPXfEr-mg6YExU_V3HBiLLHXdKSmrzXK81VaowKzf-Bcd0lwK6pLFbgUK6RNPIWswc0dGS55MgrrzQJySLBLT1M7Qss-t1A-qcK-k4cDQpo4OBMpXorm9q_TD4Uw4pl6eks/s1600/Brick%20Wall.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 162px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEix1BkdREqJPPXfEr-mg6YExU_V3HBiLLHXdKSmrzXK81VaowKzf-Bcd0lwK6pLFbgUK6RNPIWswc0dGS55MgrrzQJySLBLT1M7Qss-t1A-qcK-k4cDQpo4OBMpXorm9q_TD4Uw4pl6eks/s1600/Brick%20Wall.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>teaching English and Religion in a secondary school. I was also going out on the streets most weeks and leading worship 1-2 times a week. My first ever trip to meet my then boyfriend's mother for the first time should have been a few days filled with joy and good fellowship. It was! But I was so exhausted and drained that I got sinusitus, which led to numerous, violent nosebleeds which freaked out my boyfriend and his mother. I ended up being brought to hospital and spending my time sleeping, crying and getting to know my boyfriend & his mum.<br /><br />I've been out on the street in Dublin perhaps once in the past year. A good part of me was beating myself up for not getting involved in evangelism, the Great Commission. The rest of me was relieved that the tension between me and my family had started to ease, I didn't have to brave subzero temperatures for 4 hours every weekend and I got to sleep relatively normal hours on the weekend. It was only this week that any residual guilt I felt dissipated completely.<br /><br />I've had the past week off from college and spend a few days sewing a couple of aprons and doing a good deal of ironing. I was talking to God while doing this and asking Him where I fit into the grand scheme of things. While I was really enjoying the sewing I did wonder whether it was a waste of time in the grand scheme of things? Surely plucking pre-believers from the dominion of darkness and leading them into the Kingdom of God was much more important? Then I felt God saying, "whatever you do, do it for My glory". I did a double take. How on earth could I iron or sew for the glory of God?!<br /><br />My mind quickly turned to a <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.dulwichironing.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/ironed-shirts.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 325px; height: 215px;" src="http://www.dulwichironing.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/ironed-shirts.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>brother in the Lord who spends so much of his time running a charity shop, doing deliveries, teaching and ministering that instead of doing his laundry and ironing he tended to buy new clothes. While I may not be directly involved in helping out with the shop, deliveries, etc. I realised that offering to wash and iron his clothes would help him by freeing up his time to do what God has gifted him to do and by saving money that he could spend elsewhere. This really excited me! I could help others to evangelise by being part of a support team, doing things to help them do what they do best.<br /><br />I shared this revelation with my pastor's wife and she told me about a spiritually "dead" church she visited in the States 10 years ago. She didn't expect it to be there when she visited again this year but was pleasantly surprised to find that it was. As she thought about how and why it had survived despite the fact that no pastor survived in ministry there for more than 2 years (due to a pernickity board of elders) her attention was drawn to a ladies' group in the church. They meet once a week to pray and to sew care packages for babies in orphanages. She decided that the group's outward focus (prayer and meeting physical needs) had allowed the church not to become too insular but instead to thrive, albeit in an un-extraordinary yet steady manner. In contrast, a thriving youth-filled and vibrant church she encountered 10 years ago had disappeared without a trace.<br /><br />I realised that I'm not running a 100-metre sprint but a life-long <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.runnersworld.com/images/cma/paceyourselfapr200.gif"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 200px;" src="http://www.runnersworld.com/images/cma/paceyourselfapr200.gif" alt="" border="0" /></a>marathon. I can't save the whole world in a day. I can however employ my God-given gifts in freeing up other people's time to use theirs. I can also devote more time to serving God with my own gifts, e.g. leading worship, by not getting side-tracked with other activities I'm not suited to- I strongly maintain that I was not built to withstand wintry conditions outdoors for hours at a time!<br /><br />I'm still part of the evangelism team, even though I don't often evangelise. I serve with my gifts and that glorifies God. I've found my niche!<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-53872977374094847432010-02-14T20:39:00.012+00:002010-03-03T17:34:30.152+00:00I Know the Plans I Have For You...<div style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(255, 204, 204);font-family:times new roman;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Was thinking about Jeremiah 29:11 a couple of nights ago.<br /></span><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you</span><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end"<br /></span><span style=";font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >Most translations use the word "plans" instead of the KJV's "thoughts" and I wanted to see which one was more accurate. "Thoughts" to me doesn't seem to be as direct or as, well, planned as "plans", it seems to be more general, less regimented. So, as always, I checked out Strong's Concordance.<br /></span><p style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:100%;">Strong's No. 4284: machashabah<br />a contrivance, i.e. (concretely) a texture, machine, or (abstractly) intention, plan (whether bad, a plot; or good, advice).</span></p><p><span style="font-size:100%;">This didn't say all that much to me. Then I read that this word is derived from another word 'chasab' so I checked that up too!<br /></span></p><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >Strong's No. 2803: chashab</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >a primitive root; properly, t<span style="font-weight: bold;">o plait or interpenetrate, i.e. (literally) to weave or (gen.) to fabricate;</span> figuratively, to plot or contrive (usually in a malicious sense); hence (from the mental effort) to think, regard, value, compute:--(make) account (of), conceive, consider, count, cunning (man, work, workman), devise, esteem, find out, forecast, hold, imagine, impute, invent, be like, mean, purpose, reckon(-ing be made), regard, think.<br /><br /></span><span style="font-size:100%;">I love that "thoughts"/"plans" is derived from a word that is linked to fabric: plait, weave, fabric. Knowing this gave me such peace. God is the master Weaver, patiently weaving together all the strands of my life. No thread is left unused, no matter how dull or insignificant it may seem. Nothing goes to waste in God's masterpiece.<br /></span><span style=";font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic;font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >"My life is but a weaving between my Lord and me<br />I cannot see the colors He worketh steadily.<br />Oft times He weaveth sorrow and I in foolish pride<br />Forget He sees the upper and I the underside.<br /><img src="http://hicards.com/platinum/joycards/i/joy7b.gif" border="0" height="45" width="76" /><br />Not till the looms are silent and the shuttles cease to fly<br />Shall God unroll the canvas and explain the reason why.<br />The dark threads are as needful in the Weaver's skillful hands<br />As the threads of gold and silver in the pattern He has planned."</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-44804091354763782502010-01-24T12:22:00.002+00:002010-01-24T12:40:17.168+00:00My Ta-Da List<div style="text-align: justify;">I'm shamelessly robbing this idea from the de-cluttering group on Ravelry.<br /><br />Where my head's at at the moment writing a to-do list seems too daunting and I wouldn't be able to handle it. I'm half way through my teaching placement, 2 weeks to go and I've run out of my own resources. One part of me is freaking out. Another part of me knows that God can use what little I have to do a lot.<br /><br />So, instead of writing a to-do list of all the lesson plans, schemes of work and resources I have to do, I'm starting to write down my ta-das for the day. Sometimes that can be as little as:<br /><ul><li>Get out of bed</li><li>Get washed and dressed</li><li>Go to the shop</li><li>Eat</li><li>Go on the internet</li></ul>Sometimes it's less than that, other times it's more. But writing down what I <span style="font-style: italic;">have</span> done rather than what is yet to be done gives a much bigger sense of achievement to me than scratching off entries on a to-do list, knowing that I won't reach the end of the list today, or even ever.<br /><br />So... so far today I have:<br /><ul><li>Got out of bed</li><li>Got washed and dressed</li><li>Made lunch</li><li>Answered a text</li><li>Wrote a blog</li><li>Had a good chat with my Mum</li></ul>Wow! All that and I haven't even been out of bed an hour! lol<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-30477842988401648652010-01-06T15:46:00.002+00:002010-01-06T16:22:07.041+00:00Loving the Prodigal Son<p style="text-align: justify;">Luke 15:11-32<br /></p><p style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;">And Jesus said, A certain man had two sons: And the younger of them said to his father, Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth to me. And he divided unto them his living. And not many days after the younger son gathered all together, and took his journey into a far country, and there wasted his substance with riotous living. And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want. And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into his fields to feed swine. And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine did eat: and no man gave unto him.</p><p style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;">And when he came to himself, he said, How many hired servants of my father's have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before thee, And am no more worthy to be called thy son: make me as one of thy hired servants.</p><p style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;">And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. And the son said unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in thy sight, and am no more worthy to be called thy son. But the father said to his servants, Bring forth the best robe, and put it on him; and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet: And bring hither the fatted calf, and kill it; and let us eat, and be merry: For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found. And they began to be merry.</p><p style="font-style: italic; text-align: justify;">Now his elder son was in the field: and as he came and drew nigh to the house, he heard musick and dancing. And he called one of the servants, and asked what these things meant. And he said unto him, Thy brother is come; and thy father hath killed the fatted calf, because he hath received him safe and sound. And he was angry, and would not go in: therefore came his father out, and intreated him. And he answering said to his father, Lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed I at any time thy commandment: and yet thou never gavest me a kid, that I might make merry with my friends: But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf. And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine. It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.</p><p style="text-align: justify;"><br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;">I love this parable. Last night I was thinking about it again and new meanings and depths started to emerge. First, a little bit of background. I believe that this parable speaks of eternal security. The prodigal son was always a son, even though he squandered his inheritance/reward and even though he didn't seek to be reinstated as a son. The father was so, so happy to see him. Think about it. Our Father, God in heaven, does not sit with His arms folded, an angry look on His face waiting for us to slip up so that He can punish us. There are natural consequences for sin, but our Daddy in heaven is patiently waiting for us to return to Him so that we can be reinstated into fellowship with Him in <span style="font-style: italic;">this</span> life. The prodigal would always be a son whether or not he was reunited with his father in this life, always.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">Last night I got to thinking about how this parable applies to the Body of Christ in this life. I got to thinking about modern day prodigals, people who are born-again into God's adoptive family but who slip away from fellowship with their brothers and sisters and even from God. People who struggle with anger, addiction, reclusiveness, brokenness, abuse... people who just don't seem to fit into churches. God loves them. If they are born-again, He will never leave or forsake them and nothing (not even themselves) will snatch them from His hand or separate them from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. They have been sealed with the Holy Spirit and Christ lives in them, the hope of glory. Same as you or me.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">What about the faithful son, the one who is also born-again into God's adoptive family but who is obedient to His Father, does His will in this life, is faithful with everything his Father has given him. God also loves them. He will never leave or forsake them and nothing (not even themselves) will snatch them from His hand or separate them from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus. They have been sealed with the Holy Spirit and Christ lives in them, the hope of glory. Same as you or me!</p><p style="text-align: justify;">So what gives the faithful son the right to criticise his Father's love for the prodigal son? What gives me the right to stand in judgement over a brother or sister whom God loves, has justified, sanctified and glorified, whom He has died for? So called "good" Christians need grace just as much as "hopeless" or "bad" ones. Good Christians were just as damned before they were born of the Spirit of God. We all have besetting sins and faults, some of them are imperceptible to other people, others wreak havoc and wreck lives. And how do we in the church deal with this kind of besetting sin in others? We call it a demon and try to cast it out. We have prayer meetings and pray against it, we fast and pray.</p><p style="text-align: justify;">When did Jesus ever command us to cast demons out of <span style="font-style: italic;">eachother</span>? He commanded us to love one another. That's much harder than calling in the local deliverance minister who probably doesn't know the person and will probably never see them again. It's much hard to accept a brother/sister as they are and just love them. Love them? How? 1 Cor. 13</p><p style="text-align: justify;">I:<br /></p><ul style="text-align: justify;"><li>can be patient with them</li><li>can be kind to them</li><li>don't have to envy anything about them</li><li>don't have to brag to anyone that I'm loving them<br /></li><li>don't have to be arrogant towards them (I'm saved by grace too, remember?) </li><li>don't have to act unbecomingly towards them<br /></li><li>can't have ulterior motives in relation to them<br /></li><li>don't have to be easily provoked by anything they say/do<br /></li><li>don't have to hold anything against them (God doesn't)<br /></li><li>don't have to rejoice when they mess up and say "I told you so"<br /></li><li>can rejoice when the truth of God's Word changes the way they live/feel about themselves<br /></li><li>can put up with them<br /></li><li>can believe in them<br /></li><li>can hope that God will heal them<br /></li><li>can endure all things with them<br /></li><li>don't have to give up on them</li></ul><div style="text-align: justify;">That's hard to do all the time with someone I like. That's really hard to do all the time with someone I don't like. In fact, it's impossible. But I've been crucified with Christ and it is no longer I that live but He lives in me and the life I now lead I lead by the faith of the Son of God! Christ (God) is love and as I relax into His salvation, His life can start to manifest through the earthen vessel that is my body. Praise Jesus :)<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-44325171635162993642010-01-05T23:01:00.005+00:002010-01-06T01:37:20.444+00:00The Curse of Eve<div style="text-align: justify;">Was recently reading Genesis 3:16. Had read it before in more than one translation but this was the first time I'd read it in the KJV: "Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception". I will greatly increase thy conception? Other translations, including the NIV, translate it thus: "I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing". Hang on a minute, these are saying two completely different things. The KJV seems to suggest that conception would happen more frequently, while the NIV seems to suggest that child-birth would be more painful.<br /><br />I decided to google commentaries on Genesis 3:16 and most of them didn't deal with this specific issue, until I stumbled across <a href="http://gracethrufaith.com/selah/tough-questions-answered/the-curse-of-eve-part-2/">this</a> article from "gracethrufaith". For me, it settled the issue in my heart that nowadays, post fall, women conceive more frequently than they would have done pre-fall. Women were not originally designed to have 20+ babies, this is a result of our fallen nature.<br /><br />That said, I'm not looking down on couples who have decided to go contraception free and have large families. The Duggar family has a really good <a href="http://www.duggarfamily.com/">website</a> outlining their reasons for doing so and I bless them for it, I don't think they're doing anything wrong or sinful. They are raising their children in the way of the Lord- that is admirable and God will bless them for it. I'm also not standing in judgement over couples who decide to contracept in order to devote more time and energy to fewer children.<br /><br />I do think it's important to know how different methods of contraception work in order to make an informed choice. E.g. until last year I hadn't realised that hormonal contraception (like the Pill and IUD) can work abortively (they do not allow a fertilised egg, a foetus, to implant). I know of one couple who use the Pill, knowing it's abortive properties, but they get around this by using a barrier method (condom or diaphragm) when they know the wife is ovulating (which is easier to calculate and measure when the menstrual cycle is regulated by the Pill.<br /><br />My own mind isn't made up on family planning at the moment, except that I don't think I would be able for 6 kids never mind 20! As a single woman it's not an issue for me now but it's good to at least have an idea about it before I do get married :)<br /><br />God bless,<br />Handmaiden of Adonai</div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-66858832483298625412010-01-04T14:10:00.004+00:002010-01-06T01:13:08.613+00:00Looking Back Over 2009<div style="text-align: justify;">Where do I begin? 2009 has been the most fun, most traumatic, most spiritually fruitful, most painful and most healing year I've ever had. Most of 2009 has been coloured by falling in love with, getting engaged to and breaking up with Ollie, a truly remarkable, wonderful man... who struggles with addiction. Watching him fall into addiction and all the behaviour that goes with that was hard but even harder was watching the reactions of some of my close friends towards him, some of whom who have struggled with addiction themselves. But, God was at work in our relationship. Within the instability, unpredictability and pain of this relationship, I learned so much about myself.<ul><li>I struggle hugely with trusting other people & trusting God.</li><li>Yet at the same time I try to please everybody.</li><li>Many of my actions have been driven by an intense fear (worry, anxiety, terror) that I didn't even know was there.</li><li>This led to me leading people to believe that I am stress-free, coping very well and generally a very stable person while inside I am despairing. It also led to the fragmentation of different areas of my life: college, home, church, boyfriend. I didn't allow any of these areas to interact with eachother. My mum doesn't know anything about my church, I won't let anyone from my church meet my college friends, etc. It takes a lot of stress and energy to carve up your life like that and strive to keep them separate. This often led to me not being able to/wanting to get up in the morning.<br /></li><li>I really don't want to teach religion in schools- it stresses me out, I find it very difficult & I don't want to put myself in a position where people could accuse me of brainwashing their kids. I'd prefer to be able to be completely upfront about my beliefs and teach English, possibly resource English (can you believe that there are people who go through the Irish education system and graduate being functionally illiterate?!). I'd prefer people to know that I am a born-again Christian and not think I'm being deceptive or have furtive motives for teaching religion. 1 Peter 3:15 <span style="font-style: italic;">"be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you" </span>How will people see the hope that is in me? I want them to see a woman who is fully alive in Christ, not a woman who is stressed out because she is trying to save the world (God has already done that). </li><li>God will never leave me or reject me- I really believed that He would love me, take care of me and then at some point leave me on my own.</li><li>People's real expectations of me can be very different from the expectations I perceive them to have.</li><li>I don't have to fight every battle, I can even avoid most of them. This past year I had very heavy (sometimes spiritual) battles on every front: family, church, college, personal health & well-being. Some of these were unneccessary.<br /></li><li>I need to talk to people and let them know where my head is at. I don't mean accountability where someone else is keeping tabs on my behaviour, I mean I need to get things off my chest so that they don't get repressed and affect my emotional/mental/physical health.</li><li>I can hit rock bottom and God is there, closer than He ever was. There is no depth I can fall to where He cannot carry me. He is more than strong enough to carry me and my burdens!</li><li>I am beautiful.</li><li>I am worthy to be loved.</li><li>I am worth taking care of.</li><li>I thought I could heal Ollie of his addiction. I really thought that if I prayed hard enough, loved him enough and took care of him that that would deliver him from addiction. I can't. Only God can do that. He does it instantly for some people. Other people struggle through it and eventually get free. Some never get free. This doesn't affect their salvation or spiritual growth, but it does alienate them from other people and especially the church. The church in general doesn't know how to love these people. We need to learn because God has given them to us to take care of, not to wave a magic wand and heal them but to take them where they are, love them and walk alongside them. Am I saying that this is easy? Definitely not, but God has told us to love one another.<br /></li><li>If it weren't for Ollie coming into my life I would have kept struggling along thinking that living this way was normal (at least for me). It frightens me to think that if it hadn't been for his intervention (and God working through him) I could quite easily have ended up on valium, in a looney-bin or dead. I'm not looking for sympathy, I'm just telling it like it is. I bless God for him.</li></ul>These thoughts culminated in the following conclusions:<br /><ul><li>I don't have to teach religion, nor do I want to.</li><li>If I am so stressed and run-down that I can't function, I can't help anybody.</li><li>I don't have to say yes to everything.<br /></li><li>I now have a number of female friends who I'm learning to confide in. </li><li>I can be truthful with myself and others without being afraid of offending anybody. I can ask difficult questions of myself or other people. Jesus said that the truth makes us free. Being truthful with myself gives me a freedom I've never experienced before.<br /></li><li>Preaching the gospel does not necessarily mean leading thousands of people to Christ, it can also mean leading one person to Christ and walking alongside them for a few years or even a lifetime and loving them unconditionally. The journey does not end at being born-again, it has only just begun and each of us needs support and teaching and love right until God calls us home again.<br /></li><li><span style="font-style: italic;">"I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me."</span> Galatians 2:20 My flesh is dead. I don't have to rely on myself for anything. Jesus lives in me, in my body, and is strong enough to live this Christian life for me. This is not a cop out, it's not denying my responsibilities, it's a recognition that I don't have to strive anymore. I can submit to Him, lean on Him and trust Him to carry me through everything. "<span style="font-style: italic;">There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God. For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his. Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest.</span>" Hebrews 4:9-11 I really need rest. When God created the world He said that there was evening and morning after each of the first six days. On the seventh day He rested, but He doesn't say that there was evening and morning on this day. He is still resting and I can rest in Him. I can be free from fear and I can rest in Him. How amazing is that?!</li></ul>So, where does all of this leave me? At the moment I feel like someone has tried to play the xylophone on the inside of my ribs with a spoon, I feel exhausted and I am constantly running to God with my fears. But at the same time, I feel hopeful. Open-heart surgery takes a while to recover from and I've had a lot of open-heart surgery this year.<br /><br />To finish, here are a couple of quotes I found in a book I was reading last night, "God's Provision" by Charles R. Swindoll.<br /><br /><ul><li>"Our English word 'worry' is from the German 'worgen' which in that tongue means 'to strangle'".</li></ul><ul><li>"Jesus dropped by His friends' home in Bethany. He was, no doubt, tired after a full day, so nothing meant more to Him than having a quiet place to relax with friends who would understand. However, Martha, one of the friends, truned the occasion into a mild frenzy. To make matters worse for her, Martha's sister Mary was so pleased to have the Lord visit their home that she sat with Him and evidenced little concern over her sister's anxiety attack... Mary's simple faith, in contrast to her sister's panic, won the Savior's affirmation. What is wrong with worry? It is incompatible with faith. They just don't mix."</li></ul><ul><li>"We just take life one day at a time. That's the way God dispenses life. Because He never changes and He knows what will work together for good. You and I don't."</li></ul><ul><li>"God is never at a loss to know what He's going to do in our situations. He knows perfectly well what is best for us. Our problem is, we don't know."</li></ul><ul><li>"Not even becoming a Christian erases our imperfections. We still make mistakes-even dumb mistakes. But, thank God, forgiveness gives us hope. We still need a lot of it."</li></ul><ul><li>"Contrary to popular opinion, God doesn't sit in heaven with His jaws clenched, His arms folded in disapproval, and a deep frown on His brow. He is not ticked off at His children for all the times we trip over our tiny feet and fall flat on our diapers... He is a loving Father, and we are precious in His sight, the delight of His heart."</li></ul>Here's to a year of peace, refreshing and just living.<br />Grace & Peace (Shalom)<br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-81564601523803167362009-12-26T02:06:00.004+00:002010-01-06T01:31:19.359+00:00Head Covering<div style="text-align: justify;">Here are two posts I wrote in a thread about head covering in Ravelry (see 1 Corinthians 11).<br /><br /><br />Oct 15th 2009:<br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;" class="body forum_post_body"> <blockquote> <p>"My own reasoning, however weak, is that it would defeat the goal of modesty by drawing more attention to myself, rather than less."</p> </blockquote> <p>I’ve had this experience. Although wearing a head-covering didn’t attract any attention when I attended Brethren meetings, whenever I wore it elsewhere I was met with strange looks and even offence from other women who then tried to reason with me out of the Word why women <em>shouldn’t</em> cover their heads. After about a year of this I got sick of the attention and stopped, it was becoming contentious & causing division.</p> <p>That said, I have no issue with wearing a head-covering or with women who do, I think it’s a mark of submission, obedience & devotion to God. When I asked a friend who is an experienced bible teacher he gave me this cultural take on it that I’d never heard before: Covering in Israel in the 1st century AD was a sign to everyone that you were married. What’s the modern-day equivalent? How can you look at someone and know whether they’re married or not? They wear a wedding ring. He took this as an exhortation to let people know that you are married by wearing your wedding ring all the time as a mark that you are under your husband’s covering and not available to anybody else.</p> </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div><p style="text-align: justify;">Dec 21st 2009:<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify;">Resurrecting this thread… have been doing some thinking and praying about this since I first read this thread. I haven’t fully settled the issue in my heart but I have decided to cover in Church and while praying in the meantime. Here are a couple of my thoughts:</p><div> </div><ol style="text-align: justify;"><li> <p>I think it is possible to cover without sticking out like a sore thumb. When I first covered I did so by tying veils around my head (<a href="http://www.tznius.com/cgi-bin/rainbow.pl">this</a> is one I used often). But lately, I’ve been thinking that wearing a hat/beret (there are some lovely patterns on Rav!) would be fulfilling the same purpose without necessarily drawing attention to yourself.</p> </li><li> <p>When I first started covering, many of the Christian women who asked me about why I was doing it were not offended by the piece of cloth on my head but by the idea that man is the head of a woman and that wives should submit to their husbands. One thing they overlooked is that men are also in submission… to Christ, who is their head, and Christ is in submission to His Father. This is not to say that man is woman’s mediator or that a Christian woman does not have a direct relationship with God.</p> </li><li> <p>Similarly, in the fellowship my (male) friend belongs to, the pastor’s wife recently gave a word on submission and she wore a head covering as she spoke (which is unheard of in that fellowship). According to my friend, if looks could kill then the women in the congregation would have killed this woman in 3 seconds flat, their hostility was so strong. Submission seems to be a thorny issue in the Church. I know that women have been (and in some cases still are) subjected, enslaved, trodden on and treated like second class citizens by men- this is very wrong and un-scriptural. But God has still commanded wives to submit to their husbands <em>and</em> husbands to love their wives. I was just shocked that there was such opposition to covering (and perhaps submission?) by this particular group of Christian women.</p> </li><li> <p>Covering should never just be about wearing a hat/scarf/veil/whatever. It should serve as an outward sign and an inward reminder that I have chosen to submit to God. You could compare it to tying a knot in a hankie or wearing your wedding ring on the opposite hand to remind you to do something. It reminds me that I am not in control of my life, I have surrendered it to God and that I should act in a way that is submissive to Him. It reminds me that I am accountable for my words and my actions, and this awareness is heightened because I am wearing something that tells other people I have chosen to submit to God. It reminds me that I am His and He looks after me, like a husband takes care of his wife, or a father takes care of his daughter. Can a woman be aware of these things and not cover her head? Absolutely. But as for me, I can be a bit forgetful and the reminder is helpful!</p> </li><li> <p>There’s a romantic part of me that thinks: wouldn’t it be really cool if my husband was the only person allowed to see my hair? Then a practical part of me says: yeah, but he’d always be seeing hat-hair, which probably wouldn’t be so cool.</p> </li><li> <p>Since I began covering again, nobody has commented on it and I haven’t said anything about it. I can see that it could lead to an opportunity to discuss submission and attitude to someone if they did ask me about it.</p> </li></ol><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /></div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-31998482431288753332009-12-26T01:49:00.003+00:002010-01-06T01:31:35.430+00:00Merry Christmas<div style="text-align: justify;">Last night (Christmas Eve) as my parents went to mass (Mum was disappointed none of us kids wanted to go) I got to spend an hour on the guitar worshiping God. Somewhere behind the pine trees, holly boughs, tinsel and decorations my precious Jesus was waiting patiently, waiting behind turkey & ham dinners and alcohol, waiting for someone to say "Happy Birthday, Lord".<br /><br />I don't know whether Jesus was born on 25th December, September or mid-July and to be honest, I don't think it matters all that much. What matters is that He <span style="font-style: italic;">was</span> born. He gave up the glory of heaven, the constant worship of the angels to be born as a human being like me and eventually grow up and be killed for me.<br /><br />I remember Christmas as a child was a real time of excitement. Santa always outdid himself :) eventually the thrill of receiving presents faded away (though I did receive two cracking knitting books today!). At first the fading away used to leave me feeling disappointed but today I felt contented. God looked at me through the eyes of eternity and said to Himself, "she's worth dying for". This revelation is becoming more and more real to me, leaving me (for one of the first times) to conclude that I have something to live for. Happy Birthday, Lord.</div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-72938862157123184942009-12-26T01:34:00.003+00:002010-01-06T01:31:49.153+00:00Thank God for...<div style="text-align: justify;">... the <a href="http://www.mooncup.co.uk/">mooncup</a>! An alternative to traditional (and disposable) sanitary-wear. Boots in the Republic don't stock 'em so I picked one up across the border in Newry.<br /><br />It's my second cycle using it and I'm hooked. It <span style="font-style: italic;">did</span> take a couple of days to get used to inserting & removing it but now I'm loving it.<br /><br />Benefits?<br /></div><ul style="text-align: justify;"><li>One off payment that covers up to a few years versus continual payment each month</li><li>Nothing to dispose of- good for the environment as nothing goes into landfill/incinerator/sewerage system. No embarrassing "wondering where the heck to dispose of it when staying with someone you don't know very well" feelings<br /></li><li>Handy for travelling and camping- no space taken up by pads/tampons in the case & no need to worry about disposal</li><li>I feel more in touch with what my body is actually doing during my cycle</li><li>I actually looked forward to my next period just so that I could use my new cup (yes, I know how weird that sounds)</li></ul><div style="text-align: justify;">Thank You, Lord for making me a woman, for my fertility and for the mooncup.</div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6951138351348681384.post-16368435884351345242009-12-22T01:19:00.002+00:002009-12-22T01:40:10.438+00:00Welcome<div style="text-align: justify;">"Handmaiden of the Lord" is a phrase that has been prophesied over me on two occasions by two people who have never met and it has stuck in my heart. I can't say that I'm a prime example of a handmaiden of the Lord but by His grace He is teaching me to walk with Him day by day and He leads me by the hand in case I fall.<br /><br />I became a Christian in May 2004. I remember reading a children's bible cover to cover a few times as a young girl and from January 2004 I started reading the "grown-up" version, a Gideon's New Testament I had received in secondary school. Two scriptures that the Lord (Adonai) first laid on my heart were:<br /><br />"<span style="font-style: italic;">Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.</span>" Proverbs 3:5-6<br /><br />"<span style="font-style: italic;">Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.</span>" 1 Corinthians 13:4-7<br /><br />These verses gave me such comfort and over the next few months I continued reading the bible and through its words I heard the gospel for the first time, that Jesus Christ had paid for my sins on the cross and by believing and trusting in Him I could be saved. "<span style="font-style: italic;">If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.</span>" Romans 10:9 This is a promise from God to us and He will never renege on a promise. A weight lifted off my shoulders the night I asked Him to forgive me and be my Lord and Saviour. I slept soundly that night, safe in the knowledge that I was now His.<br /><br />I thought I knew a lot about God, but nobody had ever told me that I could know Him.<br /><br />If you, dear reader, do not yet know God and the peace and joy that comes from knowing Him, then I pray that your spiritual ears would be opened and that you would be born-again (spiritually) into a relationship with Him, adopted into His family.<br />If you do know Him then I pray that you would continue to fall deeper and deeper in love with Jesus, our redeemer, the lover of our souls.</div>Handmaiden of Adonaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12487924820220550841noreply@blogger.com0